Once again, this old otter has been given lessons at the Summer Gathering of the Free Cherokee at Dragon Hills. I believed the Spirits eased me into the idea of being an Elder by providing me with some kind of ailment that left me well, but quite energy less for the entire gathering. That is not to say age or being an Elder means being without energy, but I was definitely told to check my ego driven physicality at the door and use my mind more than my body. It was their way to say, "Otter, learn to sit and watch quietly for a change."

There were so many events to watch and enjoy, it is difficult to list them all. Most impressive was the symbiotic relationships we as a group managed to maintain. We had some difficult choices to make and diverse attitudes deal with. By following my Spiritual instructions, I observed a warmth and closeness long absent from our Gatherings. Yes, we have many instances of love and consideration, but not for a long time have I witnessed the overall attitude togetherness that makes up a tribe. Could it be that the tension and conflict of the last few years has made us stronger and closer in spirit. I know personally, several fences have been mended and neighbors embraced.

I was absolutely thrilled with the growth and leadership of our new Principal Chief Desert Wolf. Most of you didn't get to witness the maturity and skill with which he facilitated the council meetings. He was strong but not heavy handed, a sign of a true leader. After that, he readily went off with me to check the lodge and gather stones for the first sweat, only to come back and put more energy into pipe making teaching and then typing out the new member cards. Hats off to DW, he rocks.

Top on the list of lessons learned was the result of watching my true friend and retired Principal Chief, Blue Crow. He was very conspicuous with his absence at the council meetings, but though I am sure it was difficult, he was wise enough to know he must let Desert Wolf grow on his own. I know from talks with Blue Crow, that many years ago he had the same doubts and nervousness that now beset Desert Wolf. Do you know how difficult it was for Blue Crow not to step in and help his brother at this time? After all, Blue Crow is not the most shy and tentative creature in the forest and he is feeling better than he has in the last two years. All in all, he has acted like the true chief he is.

It was his example that reminded me that one of the primary principles of Native American communications is silence. Perhaps it is most difficult for elders to approach communications with an "empty cup" because their many years of experiences. We must learn to not fear the depth of a wordless pause, for that is where the lessons are. Thank you again, Spirits of Dragon Hills and all members of the Free Cherokee

Wado
Laughing Otter

Laughing Otter is the Clan Chief of the Turtle Clan and Warrior Chief of the Warrior's Society.